I’m Taking Coaching Clients!

I am a heart-centered coach who supports Asian millennials to deepen self-love and bridge intergenerational & cultural gaps

An important and fun thing to do more of is to experiment. To take risks, to make mistakes, to fail. It helps you develop new ideas, step outside of your comfort zone, and let go of perfection. The art piece above is me experimenting with new ways of combining media, patterns, colors, and shapes. It is a mix of gouache, pastels, colored pencils, and markers. I also experimented with using more crooked lines. To buy this piece, called “Experimentation”, visit my RedBubble shop.

You might be asking…could I benefit from a coaching series with Liwei?

The answer is yes if any of the following is true:

• You are an English-speaking Asian in a phase of your life where you’ve lived by the book, but are looking to pivot and build a sustainable life and career steeped in your own core values and beliefs.

• You are part of a generation that is trying to integrate more Western values into your life while navigating the expectations and belief systems of family who carry Eastern cultural beliefs.

• You have learned to continuously drive and strive to achieve the next great title, status, job, milestone, and/or income. However, the pressure and fast-paced life feels exhausting, feels empty and meaningless, and is burning you out.

• You are a lady or gentleman longing for deeper love and connection, and have unintentionally learned to neglect or avoid parts of yourself. You might not remember the last time you were truly happy or the last time you cried. You may feel disconnected, complacent, and unmotivated. You want emotional intimacy and are ready to meet your own needs.

What will you come to know after working with me?

• Recognize patterns, beliefs, behaviors, mindsets that you have inherited from your parents, your ancestors, and our culture. Learn to have self-awareness of your pattern so that when you see it show up, you can decide to consciously make a shift/change even if it is small. Your changing will create a change with all relationships you encounter (i.e., parents, partner, friends, etc.)

• Begin softening, especially the parts of you that have learned to be intense, “militaristic”, critical, and harsh due to influences from past Asian history and culture. Start to develop new habits that are gentle, slow, and nurturing.

• Learn to attune to your own needs. Discern what YOU want and need and value vs. what parents, culture, society expects or wants you to want and value. You will start to feel more connected to who you are as an individual and what you care about so that you feel empowered to live life differently for yourself.

• Learn to be with the tender parts of you that have been neglected, particularly your emotional need for intimacy and connection. Learn to do this for yourself and learn to do this in relation to others.

• Begin to communicate in a way that engenders connection rather than distance. Be able to speak vulnerably and feel confident to use your voice.

• Learn to have boundaries. This means boundaries about what you express out into the world and boundaries around what you take in and accept.

• Learn to place more awareness in your body and heart so that less of you is being controlled subconsciously by your mind/thoughts.

• Understand that you do not need to be shackled to the past or the patterns of the past. The present and the future can be different. You just have to be an active participant in making it happen.

In service to you, I am offering 2 coaching packages:

• Six 1-hour sessions over the course of 3-4 months

• Or twelve 1-hour sessions over the course of 6-7 months

• Both packages include:

  • Zoom or In-person sessions

  • Pre-coaching questionnaire

  • Free 30 minute discovery call

  • Setting heart-centered and value-oriented goals

  • Homework or actions to support your goals

  • Unlimited email support

  • Unlimited voice messaging support

I have the capacity to take 2 more clients at the moment. If you are interested in working with me, please reach out to me as soon as possible so that we can get started with your pre-coaching questionnaire and discovery call. I am offering a 10% discount for anyone who confirms their coaching series and pays their invoice by the end of May 2024. Starting from June 1, 2024, those who sign up for my coaching series will pay the full price of the package.

Please message me if you are curious about coaching with me. I look forward to hearing from you! You can also learn more about my offerings and reach me via the “Contact” link on my website at: alaliwei.com

Here are ways you can support me and my work:

• I am a heart-centered coach who supports Asian millennials to deepen self-love and bridge intergenerational & cultural gaps, leaving them feeling more joyfully connected to themselves and family, as well as empowered to live in greater alignment with their personal values and needs. Book a coaching series with me through my website: alaliwei.com

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